As easy as adding:

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spamd_flags="-m 20 -c -d  -r /var/run/spamd/spamd.pid"

To your /etc/rc.conf.

 I must warn you that spamassasin is an incredible hog.. if you get high volumes of email you may want to use a procmail/maildrop recipe to only pass certain types of emails to spamassasin (i.e. ones under 150Kb for example).  If you're looking at a milter for high email volumes then I suggest using D-SPAM instead..